Friday, May 30, 2008

UPDATE: Kirk Coiner Wants To Pay LESS

Before I give the newest update I would like to say that since my original post on Kirk Coiner I have found out many things. One of them is that he tells people that he gave up parental rights to my son a long time ago when in reality, he's never even asked to do so. My son thought he was beyond being hurt by this asshole but hearing that really did hit him. How would you feel if your "father" lied to people that you weren't his anymore? Only a heartless scumbag can do something like that.

I also was in touch with Wifey3 several times through MySpace and in those messages she informed both myself and the mother of Kirk's other child that she was working on getting the kids' payments and that Kirk cared sooooo much for his kids. Wifey2 (I won't use her name out of respect for her. I actually LIKE her! lol) even went so far as to allow Kirk one last chance at contact with his daughter. In return she got a bullshit letter from the WIFEY, nothing from Kirk, and never heard from him again. The daughter is several years younger than my son (11 years old at present I believe) so can you imagine the devestation she must have felt? Thankfully her mother found a wonderful man a long time ago that is a great father to her.

So while some might think I'm just a vengeful bitch the truth is that I do this because it's not me being hurt but my child. It's not Wifey2 being hurt but her daughter. These two kids never did a damn thing to this man. They never abandoned him, hurt him, or showed him that everything else in the world was more important than him.

In the beginning all they (and we mothers) wanted from Kirk was for him to be a father for his children. When we realized that wasn't going to happen then all we asked was that he help pay to raise his children. When that didn't work we pretty much both gave up on ever getting anything from him (money or care for his children).

I for one am tired of custodial parents having to give up and let these assholes just walk away. Our courts and legal system don't care about these children either so in a way they are just as bad as the deadbeat. In my experience, state child support offices work for the deadbeats and not the children. They are more worried about contacting the deadbeat ninety million times and letting them lie than getting anything for our kids. How do we change this?

The only way I know of is to write the Senators, Congressmen, and Legislators of the states our cases are in hoping that one of them will care. The other thing we can do is fill the internet as I do with my posts. I can not be sued for them because anything I post can be proven either in writing or firsthand witness willing to sign an affidavit. I have not posted Kirk Coiner's hometown, address, phone number, cell phone number, or Wifey3's cell number even though I have all of the above. My ass is covered so my voice will be heard. Not for myself but for my son.

Now to the News I received yesterday...

How does one pay LESS when they really don't even pay anything at all? Can anyone tell me that?

I received notification that Kirk Coiner has filed for a modification of child support. Obviously the nothing and next to nothing he has paid over the last few years was too much to him. Yes, Kirk Coiner feels that his son isn't worth the $350 a month that he is SUPPOSE to pay. How's that for kicking your own blood in the teeth?

This is the second time Kirk Coiner Has done this. The first time he asked that the $140 a month he was suppose to pay be lowered. Yes, LOWERED.

The funny thing is that the least Kirk Coiner can claim he makes is minimum wage. I was told today by my support case worker that at minimum wage he will be ordered to pay.... are you ready?... $350!!!! ahahahahahaha

Eat that you disgusting pathetic piece of shit!

16 comments:

tAnYeTTa said...

If ANYONE ever does me wrong, I know exactly who to call. You are NO joke!

I love this.

Sharon said...

I still can't believe that after all this time, he still hasn't grown up enough to acknowledge his responsibilities.

I do hope that you kick his ass in court, or whatever legal system you are going through, to get the financial support for your son.

Patty said...

Okay, the end amount that he would have to pay is HILARIOUS! What a moron!

As you know, I have the same thing going on with my son's deadbeat sperm donor. Court imputed him at $25,000 per year. ONE MONTH to the DAY later, he files a request for modification to lower it. When we went to court, he was told that it would be dismissed. So idiot requested an adjournment to seek legal counsel. LMAO! I objected, saying that he had EIGHT WEEKS since he filed to find legal counsel and if he could AFFORD legal counsel, he could afford his child support. ;-) It was continued, however. Hearing is this Wednesday at 2:00 PM.

What makes these sorry excuses believe that they don't have to take ANY responsibility? I just don't understand.

Killlashandra said...

You really do make me laugh. I wish my husband's ex was literate enough to even read a blog or know how to find one and I'd be writing some similarly scathing commentary. His ex couldn't eve put down an income hence she got the lowest amount of 150 a month that she never pays.

I do agree it's quite funny how he's supposed to pay 350 now. ;) I guess the cost of living increases must be working in favor of child support nowadays.

Wishing you luck on extorting money out of him. I feel for your son. It's sad when kids really want to believe but the reality is all they do is get hurt.

Mine went through several years of thinking their bio mom would come around. Now when she calls in the evening they don't even talk to her.

Ryan said...

I really enjoyed reading your post and your writing reminds me a lot like my own writing and it looks like you write about what you feel and I just wanted to say that it is a really good way to relieve stress and get your feelings out and also helps you see what is happening in your life and then you can see it right in front of you and see what parts of a situation that you can change and make better. It is almost like writing a pro's and con's list and seeing what is best for you to make a correct decision on what to do in whatever situation that you may be dealing with. So keep up the great writing and good posts and hope everything works out for you in your life...
Thanks,
Ryan

Craft Junkie said...

I am completely new to reading your blog, so forgive me for not knowing more details (I will try to read and catch up but for now...)...having been a paralegal for the last 14 years, in my state (and 2 others I've worked in), no parent who is in arrears in child support can ask for a modification. So, since the scumbag is already behind, how can he ask the court to lower it? I'd let him take you to court and then let the court know that he's already in contempt...hopefully they'll jail him! UGH!

Nessa said...

Sounds like the jerk has his work cut out for him, way to go you! Deadbeats just piss me off. Anyway, since you have heathens and I have Bratz, i figured we have some things in common outside of the asshole men lol. Soooo I tagged ya for a Mother Child post. You can find out more about it on my post listed below. Hope you don't mind.

Nessa

http://absolutelymoms.blogspot.com/2008/06/mother-and-child-tag.html

~kat said...

Keep on the system. File contempt every 120 days. I believe law is in every state after 120 days of non-payment it is a felony. You might want to check that out. Time to bust his ass and little him sit in the pokey awhile!

Patty said...

Jo, any updates on this? I can't wait until the court raises his child support! LMAO!

We had our hearing last week. Know what the end result was of the asshat filing his request for modification to lower child support? HE'S ON A TWO WEEK BENCH WARRANT STATUS! LMFAO! By all accounts, it appears that a warrant has already been issued... I'll keep you posted!

Rayne said...

This is just wrong. I am so sorry your son and his daughter have to go through this. I know first hand how much it hurts. I am very proud of you for fighting so hard.

Elizabeth said...

Ugh. I feel bad for your son and for Kirk's other child. It was great to see a comment from you on my blog, I've missed you! :)

Prison Teacher said...

Jo, I am breaking my self-imposed blogging restriction to comment!

You are awesome. You know that?

I googled Kirk Coiner and tada...it is a bunch of your posts! Here in VA they take the sperm donor's driver's license. Terry has a relative who is a effed up drug fiend (yes, he has traded cars[ yes, multiple] for bags of cocaine) who is years behind. The court took his driver's license. So he is always ending up doing time whenever he gets pulled over...no license! Ha Ha Ha! I know that it is not complete revenge...but hope springs eternal that one of these times bubba will take care of it. ;)

I'd better get back to my blogger restriction. Ciao!

Lisa said...

I am so sorry to hear this but am not surprised. I have girlfriend who was in the same situation. Her (now ex) husband couldn't even keep a job! He was georgous and went from one woman to another - mooching until they would throw him out. He even disappeared for awhile and had no contact for years with his daughters. And she had problems with the courts as well. He owed her thousands upon thousands. I don't know if she ever got that money...

jerseygirl89 said...

You rock. Go get that moron.

science for kids said...

I am so with you on this. My daughter is 17 and never gotten a thing from her dad. He even tells eveyone it is becuase I won't let him see her. Yet, he never tries to.
I just don't get how you can not care about the well being of your child.

Bookmakers said...

I still can't believe that after all this time, he still hasn't grown up enough to acknowledge his responsibilities.